Blog link of the Day - Why Some Men Despise Natural Hair
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A Conversation Between Brothers: Why Some Black Men Despise Natural Hair
by Ebrahim Aseem
�I love my thick nappy curls,� Eden confessed. �But I noticed when my hair is all laid & straight, I get approached way more by guys. Otherwise, black men treat me like my natural hair makes me instantly ugly. That�s kinda why I approached you first.�
She removed her headband & ran her fingers through her huge, natural curls, as her brown skin glistened in the daylight. I marveled at her beauty before replying.
�Some males who are hesitant to approach women with natural hair are intimidated by the confidence you�re displaying by wearing your natural hair & he cowers at the possibility of you rejecting him,� I explained.
�This is the same reason the corporate world does not fully embrace or always endorse women who wear their natural hair. You are seen as a threat. Too militant. Rebellious. Non-submissive.
An overly-macho, mentally fragile male can NOT handle a free thinking, conscious woman with her own mind. She does not even arouse him sexually. He needs a submissive woman.
A woman�s beautiful natural hair is a repellant for.... {See full article here.}
